Inside The Girlfriend Activation System: Full Review

Girlfriend Activation System Review

Finding a girlfriend is no easy task.

It’s a bit like a game of snakes and ladders. You can slip up at any stage.

Whether it’s meeting a girl, texting her, going on dates, or trying to make things official. All it takes is one little blunder and you fall down a slippery snake back to square one.

But what if there was an easier way? A way of making your journey to get a girlfriend full of ladders and free of snakes…

The Girlfriend Activation System could be the answer. It’s a new product that has taken the dating world by storm.

Keep on reading as I take The Girlfriend Activation System for a test run in this “fact-finding” review.

What is The Girlfriend Activation System?

The Girlfriend Activation System (GFAS) is an online video course that gives you step-by-step methods for getting a girlfriend. It helps you increase your confidence and improve your interactions with women so you can start building a successful long-term relationship with the girl you desire.

The course includes 10+ hours of video lessons and an online community forum boasting over 80,000 active members. It’s billed as the go-to product to help you get a girlfriend so I want to see if it lives up to the hype.

Here is a screenshot showing the homepage of the video course within the members area:

GFAS Course Area

The brainchild behind the system is Christian H, head dating coach at The Social Man. Christian found his inspiration for GFAS after reading 50 Shades of Grey.

Turns out, you can learn a lot about the type of man women obsess over from the fictional male characters in “literotica” books that millions of women indulge in.

So Christian spent the next 12 months locked up in his basement on a research binge studying female psychology.

He unearthed the deepest darkest desires of a woman’s mind and created the idea of an “obsession story” every guy should follow in order to fulfil a woman’s desires.

GFAS is built around this idea of activating a woman’s “obsession story”. And in this course Christian shows you exactly how to be that someone who gets women obsessed with the idea of sleeping with you and wanting to be your girlfriend.

If you want to find out more about Christian’s story and learn just how powerful this literotica stuff is, then watch his video here.


Now before I give you the down and dirty about what this course is about, first I need to see if this course is right for you. Because lets face it, it isn’t everyone’s cup of tea.

Is this course a good fit for you?

Firstly what this course is not: GFAS is not a how-to guide for picking up slutty bar chicks for one-night stands.

This is a course for guys who want to find high quality women to settle down with. It’s for anyone who is looking to find “the one” or simply wants that emotional connection and companionship that comes with having a girlfriend.

If your goal is to get a girlfriend you need to be willing to put in a lot of hard work to see the results from this course. And I really mean that. Because this is no quick fix.

That’s because GFAS has a lot of focus on improving your inner game before you can start using their step-by-step system for meeting and dating girls.

Simply put, if you want to get a girlfriend then you have to become boyfriend material.

So if you’re not willing to put in the effort to get a girlfriend then please leave this page and Google “pickup artist courses” instead.

Still with us? Good.

Now it’s time to delve a little deeper and find out exactly what this course is all about.

The Girlfriend Activation System under the microscope

The Girlfriend Activation System is a pre-recording of an entire 2-day Social Man bootcamp shot in New York back in early 2014. So consider this your ticket to a front row seat.

Day 1 is all about improving your inner game so you become the type of man women consider “boyfriend material”.

Day 2 provides Christian’s famous step-by-step process for meeting a girl to dating to forming a solid long-term relationship.

The 2-day course is very easily divided up into 3 core segments that I’ll discuss below:

  1. How to become boyfriend material
  2. The checkpoints in the dating story
  3. Creating a solid long-term relationship

So let’s kick things off with the first one.

How to become boyfriend material

As I’m sure you well know, getting a girlfriend is hands down the hardest part of dating. Casual flings and one-night stands are a piece of cake in comparison.

If you want to get serious with a girl, you need to make damn sure you tick all her boxes. That’s because if a girl wants to settle down she’ll have a list as long as your arm of things she looks for in a boyfriend.

There are some fundamental character traits women look for and this is exactly what Christian covers in the first part of The Girlfriend Activation System.

In modules 1-4 you’ll discover the key character traits women look for in a boyfriend and Christian helps implant these traits into your inner game so you become a more desirable man.

These character traits all stem from masculine power, which is basically like crack to women.

Masculine power is broken down to 6 key ingredients: dominance, competence, challenging, mysterious, genuine, and sexual. Once you nail all six, you’ll have women chasing you like something out of a lynx deodorant advert.
smelling good

Modules 5-10 are dedicated to helping you inject these traits deep within your physical makeup.

In this part you get to see some famous dating coaches make guest appearances. Jason Capital, Nick Sparks, David Wygant, and Alex Allman come to the stage to offer up some inspiring presentations.

I particularly loved Jason Capitals segment on being a challenge. This guy has some serious game and will show you exactly how to get a girl fighting for your attention.

It was great to see a strong link between theory and practical. A lot of dating products fail to back up the theory with demonstrations of how it’s done, and I don’t know about you, but I personally way prefer learning this kind of stuff with visual aids.

So I really liked how with GFAS every trait is put into action with tons of examples for different social situations. Double thumbs up for this.

My favourite was a demo on how to show dominance going in for the first kiss. Spoiler alert: It involves pushing a girl up against the wall and tentatively kissing her.

The checkpoints in the dating story

Day 2 of the course kicks off with Christian’s step-by-step process for meeting a girl to dating, sex, and forming a relationship. It’s specifically designed with the end goal of getting a girlfriend.

So don’t expect to find canned lines and sleazy tricks aimed at getting you one-night stands. None of that going on here.

This is about getting you high quality girls. And I have to say Christian’s system is an absolute game changer for helping you combat the hardest dating hurdle of them all – going from dating to making things official.

In this section it was good to see approaching covered in tons of detail. This is often one of the most overlooked topics yet is by far the most important.

Nick Sparks teaches you how to make a powerful first impression. He helps take the fear out of approaching and shows how you don’t need pre-rehearsed lines to open a girl.

Instead you’ll discover that approaching is all about body language, voice tonality and making solid eye contact. And Nick provides plenty of demos to help you master this.

The first kiss and exchanging numbers sections were a little thin on the ground. However these are well covered in the masculine power modules earlier on in the course. So no major qualms here.

The first date, second date and sex date modules are hands down the best takeaways I got from GFAS. This is when Christian really comes into his element.

Christian walks you through exactly what to do on a date – locations to take a girl, fun conversation topics to bring up, when to go in for the kiss, and how to smoothly invite a girl back to your place. You name it, he’s covered it.

Here’s a screenshot showing one of Christian’s demonstrations on dating:

Christian's video demonstrations

When it comes to the sex date section, Christian goes through everything from stocking your fridge with alcohol, what food to cook, how to create the perfect mood lighting, and most importantly, how to escalate things sexually.

Creating a solid long-term relationship

The final part of the course shows you how to deal with the 2-6 week period where you go from dating to becoming official.

This is the part where most guys screw up and I am no exception.

Guys often assume that once you’ve had sex with a girl, you can claim her. You think the hard work is over and can automatically adopt the boyfriend role.

Christian makes sure you never fall into this common trap. He’ll show you why you can’t start assuming you’ll see her everyday, why you still have to refrain from telling her your problems, and why you must respect her boundaries.

That’s because this is the critical stage where the girl is heavily assessing you as a person and deciding whether she wants to become invested in you and your future.

In the last module Christian discusses how to bring up the “let’s make it official” chat. He offers up some great examples of how to casually bring it up in conversation, so that by the end of all this studying you can find a girl, date her and hopefully start calling her your girlfriend.

Heard enough and want to get started straight away?

Visit the official site: to watch Christian’s welcome video and learn how to turn a cold unresponsive girl into your girlfriend.


What’s included with the course?

With your purchase of GFAS you get lifetime access to the course and private community forum via the members portal.

The forum is really active with over 2,500 threads. I found the Text Messaging section really handy. If you’re stuck on what to text a girl back you can post your texts in the forum and other students will help you out.

Here’s a screenshot of the forum homepage within the members area:

GFAS Members Forum

In the members area (screenshot above) you can navigate to the Programs tab to start watching The Girlfriend Activation System and gain access to over 20 additional bonuses. The 5 main bonuses are listed below.


  1. Complete Confidence Hypnosis – confidence building audiobooks to tap into your inner game.
  2. The Breathtaking Hello – tested conversation openers to make a memorable first impression.
  3. Endless Conversations – a proven formula to make any conversation flirty so you avoid the friend-zone.
  4. Sexual Texting – a guide on how to turn things up dirty with texting and get her sending you naked pics.
  5. 14-day free trial of The Ten Code – a 12 month course that reveals the secret code for men who are “tens”.

GFAS Bonus Products

Pricing & Availability

The Girlfriend Activation System is currently on the market for a massively discounted price at $67. This exclusive offer comes with 20+ bonuses including the 14-day free trial of The Ten Code.

Your purchase is protected with a 365-day money back guarantee. If for any reason you’re not happy with the product all you have to do is shoot Christian a quick email to get a refund. No funny business involved.

If you want to get started straight away click the yellow button below:


Or alternatively continue reading for my summary and conclusions 🙂


  • This is the most effective course for meeting, dating and forming a relationship with a girl. Since reviewing GFAS, Dating Metrics has rated it as their #1 dating system for getting a girlfriend.
  • Very user friendly and easy to follow. The video lectures and demonstrations provide a great way to learn. And if you have any burning questions the community forum provides a discussion point for all the topics in the course.
  • My favourite thing about GFAS is the extent of content focusing on dating and forming a relationship. I really struggle with the transition from dating a girl to making her my girlfriend. So it was great to discover tons of content in this area to help achieve my goal. Very few dating products provide advice on forming a relationship. So double thumbs up for this.
  • Value for money. GFAS is currently only $67. And with over 10+ hours of video footage and 20+ bonuses you definitely get your moneys worth.


  • Some of the guest speakers’ advice is a bit confusing. Jason Capital and Alex Allman have different opinions on some of the how-to stuff. But this is understandable as Jason is very much about pickup and seduction whereas Alex is more old school and favours genuineness. You’ll find that you relate to some of the guest speakers more than others.
  • Nothing else noteworthy to highlight. Just remember this is no quick fix. A lot of the content from Day 1 works on improving your inner game. If your goal is to get a girlfriend then you have to put in the time and effort to see results.


The Girlfriend Activation System is hands down the best course to help you get a girlfriend. It will show you how to become a desirable man and teaches you a brilliant step-by-step system to turn a girl you’ve just met into your loyal loving girlfriend.

But be prepared for hard work. It requires a lot of effort to get results from this course. So just think of the end goal and I’m sure you’ll find the motivation 😉

Get a girlfriend with GFAS

So does this sound like the right product for you?

Visit the official site: to watch the welcome video, or click the yellow button below to skip straight to checkout:


Once you’ve finished with The Girlfriend Activation System make sure you get out there and put it to practice. Also, don’t forget to email us your success stories! We’d love to hear from you 🙂

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