VIDEO: How To Transform A “Cold” Girl
Into Your Loving, Loyal Girlfriend

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Hey man, Rich James here.

Before you watch the same video that changed my life I wanted to let you in on a little secret.

I didn’t get a girlfriend until I was 29 years old.

In fact many of the points in the article you just read come straight from my own personal experiences with women.

Before I finally landed the girl of my dreams I was a serial pick up artist.

Heck, the name of this site used to be called “Pickup Metrics” until we re-branded to “Dating Metrics” 2 years ago.

Why the rebrand?

Because after 29 years of never being able to get “one” girl to stick around, I finally stumbled across the secret to landing the girlfriend of your dreams.

And believe me – having a girlfriend who adores you is SO much better than going through life single and alone.

That’s why I’ve now dedicated my life to helping thousands of guys land their dream girl (not just picking up random girls for one night stands).

Sure, meaningless sex is great, and I met A LOT of girls throughout my twenties, but barely any of these girls were really “girlfriend material”.

You know know what I mean by that, right?

Like when you just “know” she’s perfect for you and you’ll do anything you can to make her your girlfriend?

Well, out of the 350+ women I’ve slept with, only THREE girls stopped me in my tracks.

The crazy thing was every time I met a girl I actually wanted to keep around – just like a bad curse – no matter how much I tried to keep them around I ALWAYS pushed them away!!

Here’s the defining text I received two years ago that forced me to take action and fix my dating life once and for all:


Brutal right?

The girl who sent it was dream girl #3. A drop dead gorgeous gamer girl who liked the same things I liked and saw through all the bullshit in the world:


She was so perfect for me…and yep, I friggin LOOOOVVVEE asian birds 😉

But it’s because she was so perfect that I got caught up in “Dream Girl Syndrome”.

Rather than sticking to what I knew and playing “the game” I treated her differently because I didn’t want her to think I just wanted to sleep with her.

I texted her constantly everyday, I didn’t flirt and I even sent her photos of stuff I was doing saying “wish you were here”.


After a week of dodging my requests to meet up I finally received that heart breaking text above.

Food lost it’s taste…

Music lost it’s sound…

Life lost it’s meaning…

For the first time in years I didn’t know what to do.

That’s when I searched for answers online and stumbled across the BIG secret.

The BIG Secret

Even if there’s a girl in your phonebook who’s gone cold, a girl at work who’s never noticed you before, or a girl who’s point blank friend-zoned you…

With this secret you’ll be able to transform any “cold” girl you want into your girlfriend.

Here’s how it works:

From the moment you meet a girl you unknowingly kickstart the timeline of her own personal “obsession story”.

Every girl has an obsessions storyline in their head about how they dream of you winning her over…

And when you learn how to follow it, it’ll make her want to sleep with you and compulsively fall in love.

Think of it like knowing the plot to her own personal fairytale in advance so you can follow the script to make her choose you over all the other guys chasing her.

So if you’re sick of getting friend-zoned and watching every girl you like end up with some asshole jerk who doesn’t deserve her…

Watch this video and discover the 3 steps that turn any “cold” girl into your loving, loyal girlfriend:


P.S. This is the same system that landed me the girlfriend of my dreams.

P.P.S. When you get the girl, she’ll casually mention that you made all the right moves.