Let Me Show You EXACTLY How To Turn Things Around With This Girl Based On Where You Are With Her Right Now
Hey man, Rich James here.
I wrote the article you just read on the 21 mistakes men make texting girls.
I know from experience how heartbreaking it is to watch the girl of your dreams slip away…
How everything you do to try and pull her in has the opposite effect and pushes her away.
For this reason I’ve dedicated the last two years of my life to breaking down every possible situation guys encounter between first texts, sex, and making a girl their girlfriend.
Here’s the defining text I received two years ago that forced me to take action and fix my dating life once and for all:
Brutal right?
The girl who sent it was literally my dream girl. A drop dead gorgeous gamer girl who liked the same things I liked and saw through all the bullshit in the world.
She was so perfect…and yep, I friggin LOOOOVVVEE asian birds 😉
But it’s because she was so perfect that I got caught up in “Dream Girl Syndrome”.
Rather than sticking to what I knew and playing “the game” I treated her differently because I didn’t want her to think I just wanted to sleep with her.
I texted her constantly everyday, I didn’t flirt and I even sent her photos of stuff I was doing saying “wish you were here”.
FACE PALM!!!
After a week of dodging my requests to meet up I finally received that heart breaking text above.
Food lost it’s taste…
Music lost it’s sound…
Life lost it’s meaning…
For the first time in years I didn’t know what to do.
So, I did the exact same thing you’ve done and took to the internet to find advice on how I could turn it around with her.
The First Secret that Changed Everything
What I came to realise – and what you will come to realise too – is that women make romantic and sexual decisions based on emotion.
You can never convince her to date you in the logical sense. Period.
Here’s just how CRAZY this is:
Even if she knows how perfect you are for each other…
Even if the chemistry you have when you’re together is amazing…
Even if she genuinely WANTS you to win her…
Her “YES” or “NO” answer depends entirely on how she FEELS in the moment – NOT how she felt previously.
It’s crazy but it works just like a light switch *ON* *OFF* *ON* *OFF*.
And one flick of the switch is all it takes to kill her desire to see you again.
But BECAUSE her emotional decision making process works just light a light switch…
It can EASILY be turned back on.
This means even if she’s already become cold or unresponsive, one simple text is all it takes to wipe the slate clean and start fresh.
The Second BIG Secret
From the moment you meet a girl, you unknowingly kickstart the timeline of a girl’s obsession story.
And if you want to keep her obsessed with you, you’ve got to continue to make her wonder about you.
Because as soon as you start acting like all the other guys she’s dated before and try to “lock her down” and stop living in the moment, she’ll quickly lose interest and go cold.
Sure, it was hard admitting my mistakes, but I’m a competitive guy and know you can master any skill with practice and dedication.
Flash forward to the present day and now I practically tell girls they’re coming to my place like they have no other option:
But more on that later…
Firstly, it’s important we breakdown exactly where you are with this girl right now to determine if you still have a chance with her or not.
Take this two minute quiz and I’ll show you exactly how to turn it around with her based on where you are with her now: